I coach a lot of people in relationship crisis. Over the past 20 years, I’ve consulted with over 8000 people many of whom where looking for The One or who were unhappy with The One they had chosen. They felt unloved, unfulfilled and many times not safe. Many of these individuals were asking me about leaving this One and finding Another One more suitable. When we drilled down and healed the unconscious layers of crap, the answer invariably became not about the partner they choose but about the person they took into the relationship, themselves. Unless you do the healing work, you bring issues from “situation-ship” to “situation-ship” re-creating the same crap over and over with some-One-Else.
One of the biggest issues I’ve seen with others and with my Self is self-abandonment. It occurs when you project out the responsibility for your feelings and self-worth onto others or onto some-One else. It happens to all of us in childhood at some point to varying degrees depending upon how loved and safe we felt during childhood. These cellular imprints get imbedded into subtle our energy bodies and we wear our wounds energetically. When we go out into the big wide world, these imprints create distortions in our experiences of the good, the bad and the ugly and cause us to re-create repeated patterns of the same challenging experiences over and over until we clear and heal them inside out.
In what can feel for some the never-ending search for the perfect partner, what you’re really doing is looking for someone to give you the perfect love your parents never could. You think that if you can just get your partner to give you this perfect love, you’ll always feel okay. But that’s not true.
The stuck cellular memory can cause you to behave in destructive ways. Many can go into “control mode” – trying to control your environment or relationships for optimal success. Control can be subtle though. It can show up in unexpected ways. Not only can it show up as possessiveness, it can show up as being overly nice and compliant, being quiet and subservient, or being overly caretaking. In each of these patterns, the wounded you is trying not to be rejected or abandoned or left out.
We cannot connect with others when we’re disconnected from ourselves. We cannot share love with others when we’re not speaking out truth, creating boundaries, taking care of ourselves and not sacrificing for another.
Valentine’s Day is coming up and this one artificially created day can cause single people to shiver. I’d like to take back the power of Valentine’s Day and re-create it as a day of self-love. I have created a 3 week webinar series “Love Set Match” that focuses on healing in an accelerated way self-abandonment and some of the common blocks to finding romantic love with another. You’ll experience 3 one-hour weekly guided healing journey with homework to help you shift, heal and create a whole new love vibration within your-Self to become the One you’ve been waiting for.
Some benefits include but not limited to:
Clarity, Inner Peace, Balance, Love, Harmony, Ease, Grace, Forgiveness
3 weekly one hour guided healing & coaching sessions – $144 CDN
Registration in advance:
Sessions will commence via Zoom online conference :
Wed Jan 29th, 2020 7:00pm to 8:00pm ET
Wed Feb 5th, 2020 7:00pm to 8:00pm ET
Wed Feb 12th, 2020 7:00pm to 8:00pm ET